By now all of us know that the moment you have a third party in a relationship, that relationship is going down the drain. Surprisingly though, even after knowing that, people go ahead to have a third party in their relationship.
In the beginning it seems all good, everything seems right because you have someone who can help you talk to each other when things are not going right.
What is the meaning of third party? It is that one person who knows both of you and most of the things you go through. Some relationships have thrived through this. However, most of them have also ended up wrecked into pieces.
It goes back to the basics, why would you need a third party? What kind of third party do you need? How long will he/she be in your lives?
Those questions never cross anyone’s mind when they are looking for someone to help them mend their relationship. Most times we actually look for our mates, age mates, people who are in our same groups.
That is very wrong, because all of us are human and with time, the third party could easily became the love of someone’s life. Time comes when your partner finds comfort in talking to the other person more does he finds in you.
So who shall we blame? In all honesty, we can’t say who to blame because in the beginning everyone just wants to help. The only issue is that we never put any boundaries at the beginning. So here is the thing, every problem that comes between the two of you, solve it the two of you and if you need help, at least go to people older than both of you.
Be willing to talk, to iron out issues just the two of you and keep your friends far from your relationship down times.
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